One of the topics I like is about
the transactional analysis, Transactional Analysis is having an idea about
person behaviour will also be the guide on how to handle the person.
Based on research what we
experience when we were little especially the first 5 years of our life has an
effect on who we are today. Understanding background of a person will be a
guide on how you will talk or address a person.
They call me miss congeniality in
the office because I know most of the employees in the organization, from the
guard, janitor, elevator girl to executives, probably because every day I greet
too many people in a day. It has become a habit of mine to greet people even on
normal days, because a simple Hi or smile to a person in the morning will give
effect on their mood for the whole day.
I had a hard time transferring to a new
department because of the people I know in every department. It is easy to
transfer files/ reports or documents but the relationship you had with other
person can never be transferred. I always tell my friends in the office to be
nice to all the departments, if you know them, greet them, you will never lose
anything if you say Hi to someone because every person wants to be
acknowledged. Knowing the person will help you know how to deal with them. For
example, I have this friend who is really insensitive, for example there is a
private meeting of our VP and a manager, she will be there listening and even
commenting, which for us we will exit the room already if we know it is a
private conversation right? Since we are friends I told her that it is wrong, but
she told me that she is aware of that but because in their family they say what
they want to say. Sometimes, she just don’t know when to stop, that’s why every
time there are stuff she needs to not say / comment I tell her, we had that
understanding until now.
As like what I always say which
most of my teammates do not believe because they always say I am still young
and haven’t met yet a person who is really bad and will take advantage of you,
but I will always believe there is goodness to every person, all you have to do
is find that light in their heart and start from there. Quiet corny, but I really
believe in that., because no one is born as a BAD PERSON it is just because of
their experiences in life that made scars in their heart and was covered with
anger but all you have to do is remove that patch, open the wound because
wounds heal faster when it isn’t covered
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